Damn it Totally devastated

[sith-smith]

Would you believe it. After my girlfriend of several years being cool with me going to CE2, I return only to have her end the relationship.

Shocked beyond belief. Had talked about kids and Since I've bought a house we were going to move in together.

Really leaves you feeling empty

 

[itfciain]

**** mate - sorry to hear that

Main thing to think about is that if it isn't right for both parties now then it would have been even worse once kids come along

 

[jedi_masters]

Oh **** Gary that's crap. Keep your chin up though buddy, plenty more fish on the sea!! Was that the reason why she called it of, because you went to CE2??

 

[Richard_H]

Ah Gary that's totally **** mate. Hopefully she just needs a little break. Give her space.

 

[aussiejames]

Lucky you are a tough ninja because you've taken a battering over the years

 

[PGowdy]

That sucks Gary. I echo what Iain said tho it doesn't really help much right now.

 

[Jedi_june]

Damn Gary that sucks dude!

She wasn't the one for you bro, the right one will come knocking believe that.

 

[mr_palitoy]

I didn't lay a finger on him, despite us sharing a double bed in the camper van. Honest!

Seriously though, Gary, you are a great bloke, and a gentleman.

There are plenty more ladies out there who would be lucky to have you as their partner.

All the best mate.

Jason

 

[Joe]

I'm sorry Gary that really is ****.

 

[poncho]

women hey! sorry g, her loss though! she may need some space too think about 'things' women are strange creatures there never happy about something

 

[Grant_C]

****.


Pint?

 

[Frunkstar]

Gutted to hear this my friend, not much I can say to make you feel any better about the situation, but on a plus note think of all the other filly you can road test now

I do hope that its not a case of having to sell the house now mate as that would be a huge mare for your head, also hope its a clean break & not a messy affair for you, remember if you need time & space there's a huge static caravan at mine your more that welcome to come use any time you like (free obviously).

My thoughts are with you.

 

[x-pack]

Feels like **** when it happens We've all been there. Go out with mates and drink plenty is my advice. Worked for me

 

[Michael Sith]

Gary that's a crap thing to happen

Great believer in fate though mate, may not feel like it now, but you will in time to come be looking forward not back pal, things always work out for the best, make sure you smile ad go forwards mate, chin up

 

[Grant]

Im sorry to hear this Dude. One thing at least she never cleared out your Palitoy carded collection while you were at CE2. I know its zero cancellation now telling you that there is plenty more fish in the sea but there is man...

Good luck Bro and best of luck in the coming weeks. Last thing I can say is the best way to get over a woman is find another woman. Get yourself out there and mingle with more chicks. Its the cure.

Grant.

 

[Richard_H]

Come on guys there's too much move on, there's always another etc. give her space then have a damn good conversation. Several years is too much to throw away so easily.

 

[x-pack]

Agreed. But still, don't mope around. If you can get yourself in the right frame of mind to get out with mates then you should. But if things can be fixed then it's worth a go. Just take things slow. Time and distance is key. Only you know exactly what's gone on. Even if there is a chance to fix things then you need to figure if she's right for you.

It's gonna be a tough time but you'll be ok.

 

[Bollux]

Shitty news mate and nothing anybody says can you truly help you out.

My wife and I split up for a couple of weeks a few months before we got married and it actually helped us immensely despite being horrific at the time.

I hope that you feel better soon mate.

 

[Caswellbot]

I'm sorry to hear this Gary. That's really ****. Hopefully things will look brighter soon. Maybe it wasn't meant to be. In the meantime, youve got us lot......

 

[sith-smith]

In the meantime, youve got us lot......

And that's probably the most depressing thought :twisted:

Nah seriously, much appreciated guys.

I understand the plenty more fish in the sea idea, but that's pretty much how I have lived my life since 2003 when my last long term relationship broke up. Since then nothing has lasted more than 3 months. She was the first one that did. I don't want to let go and really want to try, but she has made it clear she does not and has completely cut me off.

Maybe time will change her thinking but at the moment I have little hope.

It is hard and everywhere I look there are things that remind me of her as she was such a big part of my life.

But I have been through some serious **** over the years and no doubt I'll take this on and get through no problem.

Plus I have another operation next week so that will distract me!!

Cheers guys