_Lee_
Sith Lord
- Joined
- May 7, 2008
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Guys,
Please calm this situation down, its getting out of control. Below is a part of a pm i got from a member today which made me rethink everything:
"I am a big advocate of live and let live and that there isn't a one sized cookie cutter for everyone"
Now this made me think. I had exchanged a few pms with a member here today who ive known for a long time ( he will remain anonymous) and told him why i hold the OT so close to my heart. Thinking i was being a pathetic wimp, he came back and said he knows exactly why i feel like that and that we are similar. I also know now that i was being over protective of not what i thought was MY Star Wars, but my stupid sentimentality. The OT times bring a lump to my throat, and i fear my memories being damaged. This is of course, is silly of me. Ive tried to bring myself round to the new films by posting threads over the past year saying that im coming round to them, probably to help myself. The thing with me is that my moods change like the weather, and ill change my mind back and forth and this doesnt help with medical issues. Roll on today and ive reflected on these pm,s and i almost burst into tears at one point. Yeah, yeah im a ponce but it really got to me. I will be taking my son to see the film and will give my honest opinion.
Ian, calm down buddy , just relax a little. I think this is getting out of control. Grant didnt deserve what has been said, and personal things shouldnt be thrown around bud. Im sure Grant knows he has said some things he regrets in this thread too.
Grant, i know you have been quiet lately, and some of it was down to negativity around the place about TFA, but ive had chats with you before via pm and if you need to chat about anything please message me. Whether you are or are not in a dark place is nobodys business but your own, and you will tell the people you want to if need be. As you have said before to me, you and i are alike in many ways. Anyways, if you need me, pm me bud.
Now lets chill out, and relax. All this over a movie FFS!! Lets get real here.
If you guys think you have it bad, im dreading the day they decide to remake the Godfather or do a sequel. With my wife being Italian she will cut off my balls in my sleep just because im there for her to take it out on

Please calm this situation down, its getting out of control. Below is a part of a pm i got from a member today which made me rethink everything:
"I am a big advocate of live and let live and that there isn't a one sized cookie cutter for everyone"
Now this made me think. I had exchanged a few pms with a member here today who ive known for a long time ( he will remain anonymous) and told him why i hold the OT so close to my heart. Thinking i was being a pathetic wimp, he came back and said he knows exactly why i feel like that and that we are similar. I also know now that i was being over protective of not what i thought was MY Star Wars, but my stupid sentimentality. The OT times bring a lump to my throat, and i fear my memories being damaged. This is of course, is silly of me. Ive tried to bring myself round to the new films by posting threads over the past year saying that im coming round to them, probably to help myself. The thing with me is that my moods change like the weather, and ill change my mind back and forth and this doesnt help with medical issues. Roll on today and ive reflected on these pm,s and i almost burst into tears at one point. Yeah, yeah im a ponce but it really got to me. I will be taking my son to see the film and will give my honest opinion.
Ian, calm down buddy , just relax a little. I think this is getting out of control. Grant didnt deserve what has been said, and personal things shouldnt be thrown around bud. Im sure Grant knows he has said some things he regrets in this thread too.
Grant, i know you have been quiet lately, and some of it was down to negativity around the place about TFA, but ive had chats with you before via pm and if you need to chat about anything please message me. Whether you are or are not in a dark place is nobodys business but your own, and you will tell the people you want to if need be. As you have said before to me, you and i are alike in many ways. Anyways, if you need me, pm me bud.
Now lets chill out, and relax. All this over a movie FFS!! Lets get real here.
If you guys think you have it bad, im dreading the day they decide to remake the Godfather or do a sequel. With my wife being Italian she will cut off my balls in my sleep just because im there for her to take it out on