So i have incurable cancer

[weasel]

Awwww jesus, so so sorry to read that mate. My heart goes out to you, and your family.

As the others have said, just try and make the most of the time you have left and if you need anything let us know on here, or via PM.

So sorry

 

[Fawns61]

What a shock for you and your family.
I don't know you but my eyes are welling up for you, just typing this.
Appreciate every second of every day that you can.
Don't feel that you have to put on a brave face all the time for your close family - let them help in any small way they can to take some of the burden and stress from you.
It will make it less tiring for you and make them feel less helpless about everything.
Don't do anything you don't need to.
Don't see anyone who isn't worth your time e.g. ignorant relatives or friends.
Do what is best for YOU and your family, nothing else matters.
Write down your wishes if you can to avoid any uncertainty but apart from that spend your time in the best way possible for you and your family.

May the force be strong with you

 

[monkey_roo]

Aww man, that sucks - so sorry for you and your family. Hope you get to spend the time you have the best way you can.

 

[Gogsfett]

So sorry for this awful news.
Best wishes to you and your family.

Jon

So sorry to hear this news, and I echo the thoughts of everyone else.
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and thinking of you.

Gordon

 

[_Lee_]

Man, gutted isn't the word.

I'm so sorry Ian absolutely devastated for you mate. As others have already said if you need anything please let me / us know?

Just lost for words mate

 

[grinchy]

cheers everyone, still in shock really, got an appointment on thursday, see what they suggest,

 

[sith-smith]

Wishing all the best for the appointment

 

[StarWarsFan]

cheers everyone, still in shock really, got an appointment on thursday, see what they suggest,

Wishing you the best mate, take care

 

[Michael Sith]

Fingers crossed on the appointment Ian

 

[Fawns61]

Hope your appointment goes well. Shock is a defensive/protective reaction of the brain, to stop things overwhelming you.
Thank you for the update.
Stay strong

 

[DarthStanley]

So sorry to hear this Grinchy!

 

[Snaketibe]

My apologies, but I've only just seen this thread. Like everyone, I am truly sorry to hear this terrible news. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Jeremy

 

[theforceuk]

Thinking of you today Ian, hopefully today helps you and your family in some way.

 

[grinchy]

Thanks again guys, the specialist i saw suggested a couple more biopsies then chemotherapy, give me a little more time, thats happening next week

 

[StarWarsFan]

Thanks again guys, the specialist i saw suggested a couple more biopsies then chemotherapy, give me a little more time, thats happening next week

Good luck mate, thinking of you take care

 

[grinchy]

thanks again, all xx

 

[Commander Clint]

Ian, been thinking of you on this International Cancer Day. Any updates my friend?
I really hope any treatments are going well.

 

[Robstyley]

Oh Grinchy, I am so so sorry this has happened to you man. ****ing awful. I can't imagine how you must be feeling. I hope you can get to do all the things you need to and make some sense of it all. Valuable time with your loved ones. I've known you on here for over ten years now and massively enjoyed our interactions and seeing your amazing creativity. All the best man and lots of love xx

 

[grinchy]

Cheers guys, you've all been great, wish i had better news but chemo is no go for now,i 'm just to weak, got a wheelchair today, went out to the beach which was nice, weird to be pushed around, i feel for my wife Karen my heavy ass is no good, but the weight loss will help

 

[db94]

Time at the beach with your wife sounds lovely mate, good for both of you, definitely worth the effort of pushing you over the sand for sure. Plus you dare not argue with her in case she leaves you there for an hour or two so be on your best behaviour mate.

These are moments that will keep your strength up and hopefully get you ready for chemo.