Iain you are absolutely right my friend.
What has happened to all these 'innocent' people is very sad, sincerely, BUT we have to be realistic about this. Do we actually KNOW WHY the man in question did these things? And BEFORE ANYONE says something on the lines of "because he's sick in the head" OR "he needs his balls chopped off" how about we look at it from a different angle.
I'm guessing that he did these things because he was taught it when he was a younger child himself. NOW, if this is the case then he is ALSO an innocent victim because he did not understand it was wrong when it was done to him. Then go a bit further back. Whoever did it to him ALSO had it done to them etc etc etc and so forth.
BUT, because, in THIS case, the man in question has 'passed on' so to speak (respecting the ones who are not with us anymore as fellow human beings no matter what!) how will we ever know? We wont so there is no point at all in bringing it up in 'public' in this way. IF we want to 'educate' others so this doesn't happen to them then we need to be true & honest and not say things when we do not have ALL the facts.
How do we stop this line of sadness? Well, 'society' chooses to lock them up for a few years or so and then on release what do they do, go and offend again. What 'society' SHOULD be doing is learn to UNDERSTAND WHY and help them realise it was NOT their fault why they did what they did as they are ALSO innocent therefore leading to helping them understand that what they are doing is now wrong. In tern I am pretty sure this will break the mold so to speak.
We are ALL too quick to 'judge' without understanding and this applies to everything in Life my beautiful Star Wars friends, who have been so much fun and given me so much over the years. Please open your eyes guys. The answers are all around you. You just have to 'want' to find them that's all.
All that said, YES we still live in a monetry system and yes we need to survive so sure do what you feel you need to survive for now but just have faith that in time it will not always be this way. It's getting better as we speak and if you really look around you can see evidence of this for yourself.
We only need to survive and be happy. We can do this all without being 'greedy'.
You can NOT change the past AND by them wanting 'money' for something that has unfortunately happened to them is WRONG as this is a 'sign' of greed... FACT! Why is this fact? BECAUSE if this hadn't happened to them then they would not be sueing, so to speak, and would be finding other ways to make money. But are they finding ways to make money to 'survive' in our 'monetry' system OR making money to gain things they want, i.e. materialistic items and profit basically.
ANYWAY I'm sorry for taking up so much of your time on this 'wall' for writing, sincerely and humbly.
My 19 year old niece passed away at the begging of the year and this has set my triggers off as to what REALLY is important in life my friends.
Now I ask you this... what will it take to set you 'TRIGGERS' off, an incident like the one that has affected my entire family???
WAKE-UP!!!!
I will leave you with these words to take however you wish and IF you wish to, of course, as we are all 'free-spririts' so to speak and have the right to individual opinion. That's the beauty of the Human race. ~
Love always
Ham Xx
