So i have incurable cancer

[grinchy]

So i went into hospital before Christmas, with suspected gallstones, turns out after tests and a CT scan, i am riddled with cancer, bowel liver and lung, also stomach and lymph nodes, not sure how long i have left, just wanted to let you know, hug your loved ones tighter, enjoy the holiday, take care all

 

[welshwookie]

So sorry to be reading this. Take care @grinchy

 

[Ruby2511]

I'm so so sorry to hear of your diagnosis Grinchy, make the most of what time you have and take care

Russ

 

[poncho]

Ah man That's tough! Enjoy every moment you have left x

 

[lejackal]

So sorry to hear that Ian, hope you can really make the most of your remaining time!
Best wishes,
Carl

 

[sith-smith]

So sorry to read this. I have no words other than to say I will keep you in my thoughts.

 

[grinchy]

thanks folks, still shellshocked to be honest, i appreciate the thoughts xx

 

[Cazza]

Ah, Ian So sorry to hear that. Utterly awful and I absolutely don't have adequate words. As above, make the most of every minute. Thinking of you and your loved ones.

 

[Commander Clint]

Ian, I'm so sorry to hear this news. I know your health hasn't been good over the last few years, but this is down right horrible.

 

[db94]

Ian I am so sorry mate. You are the most kind hearted person I've had the pleasure to talk to on here. Can't imagine what you are going through right now. I know your family is the most important thing to you and you'll be worrying about them and staying strong to help them cope but take all the cuddles and love from them.

 

[Mini99]

Totally lost for words…
Thinking of you.

 

[edd_jedi]

Oh no, I'm really sorry to hear this. If there's anything we can do to help, please let us know. Thoughts are with you.

 

[StarWarsFan]

Oh no I'm really sorry to hear that Grinchy. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If there is anything I can do please let me know. Thinking of you.

Steve

 

[Michael Sith]

Thoughts and prayers are with you Ian

 

[Grant_C]

Sorry to hear this mate. As others have said, please let us know anything we can do to support.

 

[theforceuk]

Sorry Ian, anything I can do please PM me, thoughts are with you mate. Your posts have always stood out to me. Sending my love mate and thanks for your contributions to this community.

 

[Clarkspie&chips]

Oh my, what awful news. I'm lost for words.
All I can say is I've always enjoyed your posts and consider you a top bloke. I will miss you.

 

[Darth Bobby]

sorry to hear that mate. Thinking of you

 

[Pomse2001]

sorry to hear about your cancer, I hope they will change their mind and say they can help you and remove all the cancer. Try to get a 2nd opinion at another hospital. Doctors can also make mistakes or not all doctors are as good as the best doctors.

 

[Twin30mm]

So sorry for this awful news.
Best wishes to you and your family.

Jon

 

[weasel]

Awwww jesus, so so sorry to read that mate. My heart goes out to you, and your family.

As the others have said, just try and make the most of the time you have left and if you need anything let us know on here, or via PM.

So sorry

 

[Fawns61]

What a shock for you and your family.
I don't know you but my eyes are welling up for you, just typing this.
Appreciate every second of every day that you can.
Don't feel that you have to put on a brave face all the time for your close family - let them help in any small way they can to take some of the burden and stress from you.
It will make it less tiring for you and make them feel less helpless about everything.
Don't do anything you don't need to.
Don't see anyone who isn't worth your time e.g. ignorant relatives or friends.
Do what is best for YOU and your family, nothing else matters.
Write down your wishes if you can to avoid any uncertainty but apart from that spend your time in the best way possible for you and your family.

May the force be strong with you

 

[monkey_roo]

Aww man, that sucks - so sorry for you and your family. Hope you get to spend the time you have the best way you can.

 

[Gogsfett]

So sorry for this awful news.
Best wishes to you and your family.

Jon

So sorry to hear this news, and I echo the thoughts of everyone else.
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and thinking of you.

Gordon

 

[_Lee_]

Man, gutted isn't the word.

I'm so sorry Ian absolutely devastated for you mate. As others have already said if you need anything please let me / us know?

Just lost for words mate

 

[grinchy]

cheers everyone, still in shock really, got an appointment on thursday, see what they suggest,

 

[sith-smith]

Wishing all the best for the appointment

 

[StarWarsFan]

cheers everyone, still in shock really, got an appointment on thursday, see what they suggest,

Wishing you the best mate, take care

 

[Michael Sith]

Fingers crossed on the appointment Ian

 

[Fawns61]

Hope your appointment goes well. Shock is a defensive/protective reaction of the brain, to stop things overwhelming you.
Thank you for the update.
Stay strong