I had one of those in Europe last year for an item I won for 6 euros. The fee was going to cost 4 times that. The seller was really arsey about it and said he only accepted bank transfers and that it said that on the listing (I hadn't checked). I said I could send him a 10 euro note which I did to a completly different name/address to that on the paypal invoice. I was just glad to get off the hook on the charges. Of course the item never arrived and the seller had said I could send cash money at my own risk. When I queried the seller 3 months later I got a very apolegetic email saying the guy had had his ebay account hacked by his little brother who had been listing stuff with bank transfer payments only so no paper mail would turn up at the house they shared. I got the figure in the end and I presume little brother got a beating.
The End.
Jason